Day 3 Rylie post-op

Well we are so proud of our little Ry-Ry, she is making good progress each day. During the night she slept much better, waking only to go to the bathroom. The doctors did early rounds and gave orders to remove the pacing wires, and one of her chest tubes!!! Removing lines is exciting, because the doctors won’t remove things unless they are confident in her progress. But, with that said, removing lines is also apparently quite painful, so Ry was loaded up with morphine around mid-morning, and after the removal of her larger chest tube, she slept for quite a while.

We are still trying to coerce her to eat. She is not normally a big eater, but we are just trying to get her to eat a little bit at each meal. To complicate the matter she has been placed on a minimal-no fat diet, so her meal choices are few. She will be coming home on a restricted diet, so Mike and I will be getting a lesson from the dietician.

She got out of bed a few other times today to get around the unit. She opted to ride along in the wagon, as opposed to walking, her body is very weak and she has trouble supporting her body weight. The first ride was short and sweet, but we managed to get into the playroom for a couple of minutes. The second ride was much longer, I think we did about four laps around our Pod. She is watching a lot of tv, and we worked on some coloring today.

We have enjoyed video chats with the rest of the family each day. It is an opportunity to remind Rylie about our life beyond these walls. When I was leaving the room this morning to go and take a shower, she asked if she could come too. She is already wanting to go home. I am extremely grateful that she is progressing so well, if things continue along the current path, we should be home in less time than I had anticiapted!!

We continue to covet all of your prayers. We can feel your support, and the Lord continues to cover us each day.

My arms are lonesome for my little Griffers, but being away from Ry causes such great anxiety. I’m still working on the balance. I think the kids are going to come for a brief visit tomorrow. I’m looking forward to having everyone under the same roof, even if it’s only briefly!

Hug and kiss your loved ones tonight!! There are a zillion things to be thankful for. Just being together is a blessing.

Rylie’s move from picu

Today,
Rylie Has had a lot of improvements.
A few of the highlights:
1. She began eating today
2. She moved out of intensive care and into critical care this afternoon
3. More tubes and wires were removed today
Tomorrow, we are looking forward to the chest tubes coming out. It is not easy to see her with wires and tubes attached to all the machines next to her bed. As wires, tubes and equipment are removed, we get closer to coming home. It feels like we are on target to get her back home soon.
Recovery at home will definitely be easier on us. It is a rough nights sleep sharing her room with the nurses coming in and out, and the constant beeping of alarms. On the other hand it’s also rough night sleep away from her room worrying about how she is doing. Six of this, half dozen of the other, I guess.
Bottom line; we are thrilled and blessed that she is on the road to recovery and will be back home living her life as a part of our big ol family.
Post by mike

We made some great progress today

Today has been another long day.  Especially after the night that Rylie and I had.  She was up almost every 30 min. all night, until 4:00am.  Needless to say, so was I.  I slept in the PICU with her last night, but I use the word “slept” generously.  When Rylie wasn’t sedated yesterday, she would wake in these fits, and flail about.  She had to be placed into arm braces to keep her from pulling on her lines.  She has a lot of lines!!  The most critical of which is placed directly into her heart.  She has pacing wires to keep her heart on track, which were used briefly yesterday.  She has 2 lines in her upper chest as well as in both arms.  I think that waking up to all of the ouchies yesterday, was quite a lot for a little 3 year old to handle!!  She was MAD!

Today, was a much calmer day.  We celebrated several successes.  When the doctors made their rounds this morning, at 7am, they were very pleased with her progress, and the fluid draining from her chest tubes.  They gave orders to remove a couple of her lines, and to wean her off of oxygen.  (She had come off of intubation and went onto a nasal canula of oxygen yesterday) When she came out of surgery she had oxygen saturation levels in the high 90%, but that has been dropping slowly.  Today, she has been saturating between 83% and 93%.

We have discovered that the morphine that Rylie has been on, has been causing some irritation and itching, so that is likely why she was so irritable yesterday.  Today we opted to try some Benedril, which has been working nicely.  We are trying to work out a balance for her pain, so that she is comfortable, but not over sedate her so that she can perform some basic functions, like drinking and peeing.  She had a folly bag, but they also removed that today.  So that has posed it’s own share of challenges, because Rylie does not want to pee into the diaper that they have her in.  Especially after spending the last couple of years training her to not pee in a diaper!  What can I say, even right after heart surgery, the girl has got spunk!

She has slept a lot today, and the doctors are talking about her eating solids in the next 12 or so hours.  If she tolerates low fat solids, without an increase in her fluid output, than they may be able to take out her chest tubes tomorrow. (This one will be HUGE)  If her fluid output does not decrease enough, than they may need to perform a catheterization.  This would be a bummer, because it would kind of push back her recovery a bit.

Mike and I are EXHAUSTED!  We have barely been able to keep up with the pace of life in the PICU.  It is amazing to me, how tired I feel after sitting around all day.  Even though I’m sitting, I’m constantly on alert.  I watch her monitors, I ask questions, I try to console and comfort Rylie, and I advocate.  There is always someone poking in, or checking something.  If there happens to be a bit of down time, I just want to rest my eyes… or eat something… or heaven forbid, use the bathroom…then one of her monitors starts to beep or a doctor needs to talk to me for a moment.  The days are incredibly long!

Tonight, I have Skyped with Rylie and Mike from home, and I will be sleeping solid (I hope) in my own bed.  Rylie is doing good, Daddy is running point, and I got to put Baby Grif to bed myself, after being separated from my little 1 year old for a day and a half.

We feel all of the prayer support… so keep it coming.  We have felt a peace going into this surgery, that I can honestly say, is beyond rationality.  It is the peace that comes from the Lord, and we know that he is wrapping and covering us and Rylie… at all times.  Keep the prayers a’ comin’!  Prayers of thankfulness for each of you, are coming your way, and a special prayer of thankfulness for my Aunt Rita, who has been holding down the fort at home with Griffyn, Campbelle, and Wesley!

I leave you with a pre-op picture of my smiling little girl in her rocket ship hospital gown, and a sleeping princess in her mother’s arms today, post-op!

Rylie’s surgery

Thank you for all of the thoughts and prayers for our little girl. The day has already felt very long, since we’ve been here since 5:30 am and up since 4:30!!

She went into surgery just after 7:00am this morning, here at Children’s Hospital in San Diego.

We got a call letting us know that she was on the heart/lung machine and all other prep. Had been done by about 9:30.

We received another call at 11:30, telling us that she was coming off of bi-pass and that everything had gone well.

We met with Dr. Lamberti, at 12:30 to receive a full update on how the surgery went, and praise God, it went exactly as it should. No complications!!!

I’ll post some cute pics of her being admitted coming soon.

It’s coming and I can’t put it off any more…

As the school year begins to wind down, I find my mind having more available space to think about my family.  It really amazes me, how much time and energy my job takes sometimes.  I always thought that teaching would be the perfect job for a mother, but I don’t always feel that they are as compatible as I thought they would be.  I am the kind of person who does things 100%.  None of this half way stuff.  So when I’m teaching… I’m 100%.  When I’m taking pictures, I’m 100%. When I’m home I try to be wife and mom 100%.  The problem occurs when the lines aren’t able to be quite so rigid.  Sometimes, mom gets pulled on while I’m wearing the teacher hat, and quite often the teacher hat needs to be worn during mom time!  I think I’ve done a pretty good job balancing this year, but it certainly hasn’t been easy.

With only 3 weeks left of this school year, I am beginning to think about the summer for Team V.  Normally this is an exciting process, but not so much this year!

Unfortunately, I’m having trouble seeing past the month of June.  I’m really trying hard to take it all in stride, but sometimes my mind isn’t quite as capable of conquering my heart!! (darn it!)

Rylie’s surgery is scheduled for June 30th, and I have to admit, I’m really scared!

We were supposed to meet with her cardiac surgeon, on 5/26, to go over everything for her surgery.  But our meeting had to be rescheduled.  We are waiting to hear back from the surgeon about another time that will work for him.  I feel like I need to be walked through everything and really prepared.  Although, I do know from experience, that nothing can prepare me for turning over my child to have heart surgery.  I usually feel like I’m doing a pretty good job of handling it, of praying through it, and then the day of the surgery comes, and they take her away… and I fall to pieces!!!  I can’t even begin to explain the heart wrenching fear that overcomes me in those following hours!  I’m even beginning to tear up now, just thinking about it!

So I try to stay busy, and push away the fear.  There is so much to do, there is soooooo much to do.  Focus on the school year, focus on the fun, focus on family!!  But I am slowly running out of time to be in denial, and I need to start preparing myself and my family.  There are a few things that I really can’t put off any longer.

1. find people for direct blood donation. Rylie may be put on bi-pass for this next surgery.  She is in need of blood.  I will be donating, but we need more.

If you are a healthy friend of the family and are B+, than we would ask for you to consider donating blood for Rylie.  We have orders at the blood bank for red blood cells, and platelets. Other compatible blood types for red blood are: B+, B-, O+, & O- and we will need a man to donate platelets (B+, B-, AB+, AB-), close to the surgery.

2. get family photos done.  I need to get pictures of the entire family done.  We do not have good pictures of all of us, since Griffyn was born!  The frustration is that I can’t easily be behind the camera and in front of it, at the same time.  Money is tight, so worst case, I’ll have to do photos on a remote… but this absolutely has to happen.

3. line up help getting my aunt from the airport to our house on the 29th, because she is coming into Orange County, and I will be in San Diego doing pre-op stuff with Rylie.

4. line up child care help for Campbelle, Griffyn and Wesley for the 29th, while I’m at the hospital with Rylie.

5. make a photo memory board for us to take to the hospital, and collect special things to have around Rylie while she is in the hospital.

6. prepare for the unknown???

We feel so blessed that my Aunt Rita will be coming out to help bridge the gap, while Rylie is at the hospital.  Right now, the doctors are planning for only 5 days in the hospital, and I will be hoping for that outcome and no complications.  My aunt is planning to be here for 10 days, so we should have coverage for the kids while Mike and I tag team back and forth to the hospital.  I am so very torn, because having to leave Griffyn will be so hard, but I know that I will want to be with Rylie.  I will definitely need to pace myself.  Just knowing that my aunt will be here, takes such a HUGE weight off of my shoulders.

At this point, Rylie’s recovery is unknown.  I have no way to prepare for what things will be like once we get her home, but I will certainly be looking forward to that.  We are trying to begin talking to Rylie about the surgery.  She is so very afraid of doctors, that it is difficult.  But we are talking to her about trying to set up some new “princess” things in her room for her to return to!

I am assuming that the surgery will go as planned, without complications.  Frankly, I can’t even allow myself to go to any other outcome.

Please pray for my family, if you think about it… the next 6 weeks are going to be difficult, and especially once school is out for summer.

I will try to blog about things as I know them, and keep people informed about her progress through the surgery and recovery.  Thanks in advance for your support- friends!

For more information about Rylie’s heart defect and the course of surgery click here! She is scheduled for the “Fontan Completion” surgery next month.

Here is a drawing of her broken heart to explain.

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